You don't complicate life. It gets complicated. Not always. Sometimes we do complicate life. In other words, life gets difficult for a variety of reasons. We don't have control over everything. Different circumstances can complicate life.
It is necessary to unburden yourself for an overall healthy being and It is quite possible to uncomplicate things in your life.
Sometimes life gets complicated because we don’t do anything. If you are in misery, think about your life. Have you done anything to change your life? I have lived a similar life for five years. All my efforts were half-hearted. If you don’t control your life, life will control you. Maybe not in 5 years but in the next 20 years you will be in life’s control. Years of not doing anything will downgrade you.
There are multiple reasons behind life complications. However, you can simplify it. But first, you need to understand what has complicated your life. You will fix things when you know the precise problem.
Here are a few things that helped me improve my sleep cycle.
Important Note: If you don’t control your life, life will control you. Maybe not in 5 years but in the next 20 years, you will be in life’s control. Years of not doing anything will downgrade you.
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No one is perfect
Your peers are way ahead of you.
You are thinking that you have wasted your life.
If there is guilt that you are unable to fix things in your life.
Remember many people have messed up their lives. You are not the only one who is in life misery. We get trapped in a life doldrum. The important thing to understand is that you can clean the clutter. There is no need to go into a guilt trap. Things will change gradually when you start doing the right thing. Year for mess takes time in cleaning. However, if you keep doing the required things over the years. Your efforts will result manifold.
Become a better version of yourself daily.
Financial difficulty
We are living in a different world. For all the work you need money. The financial crunch is a disturbing thing. Happiness vanishes fast when someone is out of pocket. So earning money should be your priority. How much is too much is all up to you. But at least you need a number where you can live a life without much trouble.
Keep looking for an opportunity for monetary growth. It would be best to find a high-paying skill set and become a master in it. We are living in one of the finest times of technological development. In this age, skill matters most. You can change your monetary problems if you work hard for six months.
Leverage the technology and grow monetarily.
Unforeseen trouble
You can't do much about it. Life is such that thinking certain things can't happen to you is stupid. You can also be in trouble at any point. You are no different from others. Problems never ask for permission before coming. They come unannounced.
What you can do is be mentally strong in such situations. However, it is easier said than done. But this is what will help you. You have to face the problems. You might be in a situation that you haven't seen earlier. The path will look bleak, but being patient and positive helps. You will be over it, and you will be a different person.
Consider adversity an opportunity to become strong.
Toxic Relationship
You can handle all the pressure in this world. But you can't manage the stress that a toxic relationship gives. I have experienced it. It can disturb you from all the different corners. The reason is it disturbs your mental peace. If anything that evokes emotion and affects it negatively must be fixed.
If you are into one, leave all the other things and work on fixing it first. It will minimize all types of growth. It would be best to read about improving a toxic relationship. If your suffering is unbearable, don't hesitate to seek a specialized doctor.
Visit a psychologist and get a consultation because there is nothing wrong with it.
Delegate the task
You can only do some of the work. No one has expertise in all the tasks. Delegating the job is an important skill to reduce work pressure. This work is related to more than just the office. You can also ask a family member to take care of the grocery. It would help if you freed up your time for other things.
Remember to appreciate the people who simplify your life. You must sound positive and be constructive with your criticism. Give them their credit, reward them, and they will happily do more work for you.
Train the people and let them do the work; it frees up your time.
Go on Vacation
Doing unrelated things is necessary to become stress-free. Even if you are living a stress-free life after a time, you will feel monotonous. Doing repeated things brings growth in life. However, never let that thing become tedious. It would be best if you did something that rejuvenated you. If you have any hobbies, don't stop doing that. For example, I like watching movies. I still watch. However, finding a movie that I can watch takes time.
Traveling is one such thing that will help you refresh yourself. Don't carry the emotional baggage in your trolley when you vacation. You are going to have fun, and that should be your priority. Live in that moment where you are.
Don't carry the emotional baggage in your trolley when you vacation.
Life is monotonous.
After a time, everything you do in your life will be a similar thing. For example: A coder will write code. Either the coder will work as a freelancer, or the coder will work in a 9 to 5. Sooner or later he will be in a routine. If S/he is an office going person. They will have to wake up at a certain time, get ready, reach the office and come back home. The same goes with freelancing work. A freelancer may not wake up at a fixed time. But they also have to get fresh, complete daily chores and code. Certain things will get repeated in both ways of working. This repetition creates monotonicity.
Wind-up
When you are fixing your life. There will be turmoil. When you are improving, you will be tested. Some situation will come which may stop you from doing the right thing. But remember the life misery you are into. The trouble that has caused. Change or improvement is a journey. Work for it, and you will feel the difference in your life with time.
It would help if you remembered that things that have made your life difficult would not necessarily make other's life challenging. You are different. So don't feel inferior about it.
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